I could also ask: what is love?
In my opinion, the two are synonymous.
Friends are special people, and differ somewhat from loving thy neighbor, because there is a deeper bond between the two. Yes, a bond that transcends love of neighbor or charity. This bond is mysterious, as faith is also a mystery.
When I was in the military, there were some men who I didn't like, but I loved them, and was willing to fight and die with or for them.
Friends can be two males or two females, but there is a very special bond between a male and a female; a man and a woman. This bond is not of the carnal nature, that is reserved for husband and wife, but it does signify the willingness to sacrifice; care about; worry about; feel sadness when the other is sad, just as in marriage.
As far as the man is concerned, there is the sense of chivalry toward his lady friend; a sense of wanting to protect, respect and honor her.
And for the woman, she knows that he has her best interests at heart, and is dependable; always there for her. What a feeling!
Friendship is a special gift, if you have it, nurture it, relish it, and above all, love your friend.
E. DeLalla
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ReplyDeleteGreat article, Gene.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much..
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